Resources

Living in a Mixed-Orientation Marriage can be a unique challenge for every member of the family. These resources are available to help.

Husbands Out to Wives (HOW) –  An online support group for married, gay or bisexual men who have or intend to come out to their wives about their sexuality.

Hope-Understanding-Growth-Support (HUGS) for Couples – A list for couples of mixed sexual orientation who are working to keep their relationship strong and growing. It provides a positive environment where these couples can EXPRESS their concerns, SHARE their successes, and GIVE and RECEIVE support and encouragement.

Making Mixed Orientation Marriages Work (MMOMW) – This group has been created for those who are in mixed orientation marriages. Straight spouses who are married to gays or bisexuals and also the married gays and bisexuals themselves.

Alternate Paths (AP) – Provides information, resources and stories that will support wives of mixed orientation couples who have an ongoing commitment to nourishing and strengthening their relationships.

Monogamous Mixed Orientation Marriages (MonMOM) – Support group for either or both members of a mixed orientation marriage or relationship working to remain monogamous.

Mixed-Orientation Marriage Pathways to Success – Readings for Couples in a Mixed Orientation Marriage Seeking Success

Out Late With David — Resources — an extensive compilation of links to resources, organized by life coach David Cotten.  Includes coming out stories and guides, references for mixed-orientation marriages, support groups, LGBTQ+ relationship perspectives, and general personal development references.

Please note that HOW provides these resources as just that…resources and each individual and/or couple must determine if they are useful in the pursuit of their Mixed Orientation Marriage.